The girls and us parents had a BIG falling out. See.....Pat and I have noticed that our girls have gotten very sluggish and inappropriate when we ask them to clean up their toys. Sara gets a instant leg ache and turns on the tears and Sydney grumbles and complains the whole time she moves like a sloth and puts her toys one handed into the wrong place. Finally (and a bit long overdue I am sure) I blew my stack and said "Now I will clean up your room....my way" . Pat and I got Rubbermaid bins and put everything away under the house. The response was as dramatic as you could imagine. Their reaction told me that we should have done this ages ago.
The girls and I had a long conversation the next day about how to get a long in this family and we created a Circle of Promises. It lists all the things we want to do in this family. I was so impressed with the list they came up with...
We will:
Be loving
Be patient
Share
Give Second chances
Not yell
Not be sassy
Do as we are told
....there is more but I can't think of it right now. Anyway, the girls decorated our circle and it hangs now in our kitchen. BTW - clean up is going really great everyday.
Sydney had her first Valentine's celebration at school. She is only a half day student so she had to open her cards at home. She was so sweet and let Sara open up half of them and shared everybit of candy she got. Even down to sharing a sucker. Honestly, I was never this giving when I was little. I was glad that Sara got to have some fun too.
We took Ruby out for a walk on Alki beach. We wanted her to get used to more people and sniff a couple of dogs.
Then it was time for Ruby to get her second bath. You can tell that she just isn't all that sure about the whole thing.
Here is a picture of Sara in her favorite spot...on the heater vent. Her and I have the same cold blood I think. If there was enough room I would be on the heater vent with her and Ruby.